well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.
decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.
then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.
Totally I will ! I feel self conscious about it around people and see the reaction from interested females as soon as I open my mouth, instant turn off. They're not that bad like 6/10 at best no cavities but enough to look a little retarded. Very fixable just frustrated at a the decade or so lost in the twoof going around in circles.
Thanks Scott !
well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.
decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.
then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.
OK right on good stuff will do !! The 'New System'™ argument was used as a cop out to avoid reality in certain areas of my life I guess.. WT did mention in print to put off materialistic things such as having nice teeth and I did come across it somewhere I kid you not !
Ultimately I should of been smart enough to see past the BS, but at that point in my life it seems like I needed to believe the hype..
well 55 yo this summer times flies.. was in my late thirties when i started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth.
decided to put it off a few years later as 'the new system' ™ was right around the corner.
then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority.
Well 55 yo this summer times flies.. Was in my late thirties when I started thinking about getting braces or some other treatment for my crowded teeth. Decided to put it off a few years later as 'The New System' ™ was right around the corner. Then went through a huge burn out depression and my teeth became a lesser priority. Although I brush often, take good care of my health and do lots of sporting activities I think it's high time I address this issue if I don't want to be a Eunuch the rest of my life. Anybody else go through this and what would you do ? Attempt repair - braces etc. or just go with a nice set of dentures ? I hear they change the shape of your face and that you have no where near the biting pressure of natural teeth. Oh, by the way thanks for this WT. What a great help you've been..
for almost 12 years now, i have been coming to this site on a regular basis and in the last 5, i “faded out”.
i never regretted this and never will.
unfortunately though, yesterday, i realized that, until i can publically tell all my old acquaintances why i have left, i will never be truly free.
Stephane, maybe you could whip up a few vids with the Quebec French Canadian JW culture / slant ? You know the sort of crazy Catholics on steroids way they tend to be ? There's isn't much apostate material out there for us Ex JW Québecois.. Just saying that would be so cool if ever you decide to go that route.
Anyhow ice to have you back, mon frère ! HeHe ( the French Canadian Congs. make a big deal out of calling everyone Frère and Soeure so and so etc. Too funny !! )
Edited to say: should I request it be reference section only as I've heard, I don't know if it's true, that JWs will steal copies and destroy them?
Good idea, remember : "Theocratic Warfare" They'll do it if allowed to do so. Don't give them that chance.
Right on will order a couple copies and will make sure to donate one each to our local congregations hehe !! Good job Mike and Kim thank-you !! This will hopefully be putting some more hurt to the WT corporation going forward.
i met a wonderful man on match.com several months ago.
on our first date, there was amazing chemistry and we ended up having sex.
it was not planned, it just happened.
I find the NARCISSIST factor is by far the most pressing issue here with the JW thing a distant second.. As mentioned JW Facts lays it bare for all to see so yes.
Sunnybear please look into Narcissism, this guy checks each and EVERY single box, 100% USER . Sex is great but also gets old real quick with someone you're not in love with. He's using you for his own pleasure and what he does love about you is your booty not you as a person. Remember he and his beloved organisation are on the take. Take, TAke, TAKe and TAKE !
https://sarateller.com/narcissistic-traits-checklist/
Girl you are in for a world of hurt with this guy, sorry.
Bottom line if he loves you and you are as important as he says then the religion aspect would only be a simple detail to work around and compromise on. It's sure isn't going that way is it ?
i met a wonderful man on match.com several months ago.
on our first date, there was amazing chemistry and we ended up having sex.
it was not planned, it just happened.
Some co dependancy going on here. That and the guy is a full blown user and narcissist as previously stated it comes from being in the cult. A quick read of Stephen Hassan's 'Combating Cult Mind Control' is in order Sunnybear.
Back in the late nineties I had an df'ed jw friend that was my mountain biking / training partner for a summer or two. Very similar in character to your BF : While he was DF'ed he slept around, did all the 'worldly things', used his new found expendable worldly friends for free labour, rides and meals and then quickly cut ties with us once he re-married and was re-instated. Went back for the status and money, inheretance you know, game plan all along.
Although you dated lots Sunnybear sounds like you can do better even if you feel you're getting older and the clock is ticking. It's all up to you really but sometimes better being alone than poorly matched. Anyhow good luck with it all and take care, hope it works out for the better for you. Is kind of a sad situation really, the way narcissists leave hurt and upheaval in their wake... I've seen it up close myself and learnt quite a bit to say the least.
i’m 71 years old now.
seven decades plus.
but, i put that in perspective owing to the fact that my older brother died in 1992 at the age of only 51. it was a very sobering time for me even though i was only 45 at the time.
good post following will read through later thank-you
there are many terms used at bethel that might sound foreign to normal people.
there are many words or terms used at bethel that are unique only to their organization.
here are just a few of them.. “a jack” this is someone who is a slacker or just lazy.. “a pot licker” this term has been used for many years but its connotation is unclear.
Thanks Keith good stuff, looking forward to that book ! Did you ever get someone to help you with it ? Alexandra James come to mind, that would be awesome. Anyhow best wishes bro.
